I don't know of anyone making stuff to attach to the stock crossmember... I've known about 4 different guys that have created a whole new crossmember but I believe there is only one still being marketed.
That's Mike Hokanson's crossmember setup above on his dad's car... pretty sweet !! I talked my local Tiger buddy into getting one a while back. That '250#' number is not applicable to the stock setup as the shock/spring mounts quite a bit more 'outboard' on that a-arm so the calculation is different.
..."Also, when I got my car where I wanted it looks wise, it was almost on the bump stops." ...
There are really only 2 ways to get the front down on a stock suspension that don't compromise the travel... short tires.. or the Hillman spindles!! That's why I spend a lot of my time trying to source more of them